Many studies have shown that men react to strong emotion more physically than women do. Women's minds focus on feeling while men's focus on problem-solving. So, men's minds work differently from women's minds.
Men do not talk about their feelings to their friends a lot, whereas women do. Men do talk, but they talk all the times about sports, cars, movies, video games, tv shows...Just not their feelings. But, stoic men understand that communication is vital in any relationship. They should be willing to talk about things that need to be talked about.
Then, try to seize up the opportunity to speak with your man about emotion. A good time to bring up emotional issues is when he's relaxed and comfortable and not otherwise occupied. It's important not to pressure him In this light, avoid saying " WE NEED TO TALK". Those are the four dreaded wodrs in the English language. Instead, arrange a situation you both enjoy where talking will be feasible -going out to dinner, taking a Sunday drive, etc.
Above all, Men are different from Women, and that's a good thing.
I am waiting for opinions, critics, comments...
Thanks in advance.
Have a nice day
الأحد 01 فبراير 2009, 13:57
